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IS BABY WAKING UP FROM HUNGER?

We are all willing to do whatever it takes to ensure that our babies are properly nourished, obviously, but as anyone who’s been through this glorious journey of motherhood will tell you, kids are clever. They are unimaginably smart. They will find ways to get what they want…on repeat!

Which is not their fault. They know what they like, and at a young age, they like mom.  A lot.

I’m talking mom, ALL. THE. TIME.

And given the fact that they really only have one method of communicating, if mom’s not around and they don’t think that’s cool, they fire up the lungs and they cry.

However, obviously they don’t only cry because they want mom. They cry because they are uncomfortable, or because they have a dirty diaper, or because they are too hot or too cold, and they cry because they are hungry.

So when they wake up in the middle of the night and they start crying, it’s tough to determine whether it’s because they need to eat or because they just want to see mom back in the room.

I’m not trying to tell you that you shouldn’t respond to your baby’s crying. You know your baby better than anyone else and I imagine you can tell when something needs to be addressed based on the decibel level, intensity, pitch, and duration. But having said that, if your baby is waking up several times a night and insisting that you come in and rock them back to sleep, that can have a serious impact on everybody’s sleep, including theirs.

A lot of babies develop a dependency on nursing, rocking, sucking, and so on, in order to get to sleep, and it’s not something they can overcome in 15 or 20 minutes. Solving that issue takes some real work and a firm commitment from you, but we can talk about sleep training in a minute here.

First things first, here are a few things to consider when you’re trying to determine this parental riddle.

IS BABY UNDER SIX MONTHS OLD?

Up until about the six month mark, babies typically need at least one nighttime feed. Their tummies are small, they haven’t started solid food yet, and formula and breast milk digest fairly quickly, so there’s a good chance they’re going to get a case of the munchies during the night.

This isn’t the case for all babies, obviously. Some infants sleep through the night without a feed from a very early age and then pig out during the day, but generally speaking, you can expect to be summoned for a nighttime feed up until baby’s hit about five to six months.

IS BABY EATING ENOUGH DURING THE DAY?

Once baby’s capable of sleeping through the night without a feed, you need to make sure they’re getting the calories they need during their daytime hours. The best way I’ve found to make this switch is to throw in an extra feed during the day, or by adding an ounce or two to each bottle throughout the day. This is also a great time to think about introducing solid foods.

The good news here is that baby’s body will typically adjust over a night or two to start taking in those additional calories during the daytime once they’re no longer getting them at night.

Just a quick but SUPER IMPORTANT reminder…

Before you attempt to make any changes to your baby’s feeding schedule, talk to your pediatrician. Nighttime sleep is awesome but calories are essential. If your little one is underweight or not growing as fast as they should be, it might not be a good time to wean out night feedings, so again, chat with your doctor.

IS BABY FALLING ASLEEP QUICKLY WHEN YOU FEED THEM?

I’m sure you know this scenario. Baby starts crying 45 minutes after you put them down, you go in and offer a feed which they eagerly accepts, baby takes about three quarters of an ounce, then promptly passes out in the middle of things.

If this is happening frequently, it’s a good sign that your little one’s feeding for comfort instead of hunger.

Babies who are genuinely hungry will usually eat until they’re full. Babies who are feeding for comfort tend to drift off pretty quickly once they’ve gotten what they’re looking for. – YOU! Not food!

DOES BABY SLEEP FOR A GOOD STRETCH AFTER FEEDING?

If baby does take a full feed at night, he should be able to sleep for around 3-4 hours afterwards. An average sleep cycle for babies around the 6 month mark is somewhere in the 45minute – 1 hour range, so if they’re waking up shortly after they eat, it’s likely that they’re dependent on the sucking and soothing actions of your feeding routine to get to sleep.

WILL THEY GO BACK TO SLEEP WITHOUT A FEED?

So if your baby really is hungry, they usually won’t go back to sleep very easily until they’ve been fed. If they nod off after five or ten minutes of crying, that’s a pretty reliable sign that they were just looking for some help getting back to sleep and not actually in need of a feed.

DOES BABY FALL ASLEEP INDEPENDENTLY?

This is the main part of the whole equation! Can your baby fall asleep on his own?

If you can put your baby down in the crib while still awake, leave the room, and have baby fall asleep without any help from you, then those nighttime cries are far more likely to mean that baby genuinely needs a hand with something when he wakes up crying at night.

Determining whether your baby’s hungry at night is obviously a complicated situation.

Calories are vital but so is sleep and it can be hard trying to balance the importance of the two. But once the habit of feeding (or rocking) to sleep is broken, you can feel much more confident that their requests for a nighttime feed are out of necessity and not just a way of grabbing a few extra minutes with mom.

And, as always, if you’re looking for some help teaching your little one those essential sleep skills, I’ve got you covered.

 

About the author

Louise Williams

Louise is a Certified Pediatric Sleep Consultant and the Founder/Owner of Easy Baby Consulting.

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